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female
age
30-35,
*annapao26
writes:So recently ( 3 weeks ago) my boyfriend of 7 months broke up with me. He said he didn't have the time for me and that we should go separate ways and told me to find a new boyfriend. He's 34 I'm 19. I'm deeply inlove with him, I was devastated when he said that.. I felt like my world fall apart, he's my everything. I have a guyfriend who I have known since middle school, he has a girlfriend. He was there for me, he gave me his opinion on the situation and adviced. I felt better everytime I talked to this guy, it made me forget about the pain and emptyness I was feeling because of the break up. However, yesterday me and my ex boyfriend got back together, I just wasn't ready to give up on him. I'm extremely happy that we did, however, I think I kind of like my friend and I feel so guilty because I feel like I'm betraying my boyfriend by even liking him and plus the guy has a girlfriend. I'm extreamly clear on the fact that I love my boyfriend more than anything in the world but this guy makes me feel things and I like him ... I feel so bad and guilty because I'm in love with my boyfriend and I don't want to like this other guy.
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reader, dirtball +, writes (18 March 2011):
 Sooo... What's the problem? You got back with the guy you wanted, haven't done anything wrong with this other guy who helped you out, and...
It's perfectly natural to like people, especially old friends who offer help in times of need. Just don't do anything you'll regret with him. There's nothing to feel guilty about as long as you don't do anything wrong.
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