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writes:I am 17 , and I'm in relationship for long , we love each other so much and we're dreaming to marry in future , he always next to me and he do anything i want ... but the problem is we always fight even if it was a silly reason , he always tell me i don't feel that you love me you don't show it to me ... So please tell me what should i do to prove that i love him ! Reply to this Question
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reader, anonymous, writes (17 March 2011): There is very little information to go on here, but red flags go up for me every time a man tells a woman she must prove her love for him. More often than not he is trying to guilt her into granting him special favours he isn't entitled to. If he thought you truly didn't love him he'd have left long ago.The best defense is a good offense. Instead of trying to defend your position, get him to explain (defend) his. Ask him to give you specific examples of things you have done or not done to make him question your feelings. Then come back to us with those examples and we can give you better advice.
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reader, MaraSelene  +, writes (17 March 2011):
Well like jenny said you can show him by doing small things. Or just say that you love him everytime you see him that always works.
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reader, jenny j  +, writes (17 March 2011):
if you feel as if you love him and do show it, maybe he is insecure, it is a very frightening thing giving yourself to someone with the doubt that the feelings you have for them may not be reciprocated. he just wants the confidence, maybe he is feeling insecure. do special things for him, like send me a text randomly in the morning saying "good morning, have a great day, call me later? i love you so much X" things like that just instantly put a smile on your face!
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