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writes:Ok So I have this boyfriend and its really complicated because it's a distance relationship so thats already a extreme added conflict. However we are like most couples. But he does this thing where we will be fine and then after a while he kind of drifts away and doesnt text as much then he will come back and be all how do you say dedicated again i guess. I figured wrongly maybe he has another girl hes having feelings for or with but I guess I'm wrong. He got upset that I dont trust him and simply is only texting me once a day now if that. He says he doesnt want to break up and he loves me. We've been talking for over 8 months. So I guess what I'm asking is, is this something that happens sometimes? Just simply run out of stuff to talk about and being stressed that leads to this or is it that hes lying and really has lost feelings?
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reader, dreamingbella  +, writes (22 March 2011):
 As i'm reading your title, obviously he told a lie! A man would cut down his busy schedule just to check you out how your days are, anything special happens to you in the day time. A cruel fact you need to accept my dear!
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reader, anonymous, writes (19 March 2011): I have met him in person.. I used to live there but I moved. We remet through a friend and it kind of instantly clicked.. I think we will be ok .. I'm moving there soon since a lot of my family lives there. I can stay the summer with my sister and I already have got into the same college. I kept telling him how I felt but when I told him that I think we should move on like a typical guy he said Im sorry I was being an ass. So I guess we're trying to work through this.
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reader, cupidus  +, writes (18 March 2011):
 Too many women are spending there time online looking for love !!!!!!!!!!??????
Why, maybe it's just too safe!
Why go there, get a real in the flesh man
Have you met this guy in the real flesh?
It's too easy to be anyone you want online.
It's too easy to just sit in front of the monitor and
pretend ANYTHING!!!!!!
What's has happened to people, we're becoming machines!!!!!!!
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