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female
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26-29,
anonymous
writes:I'm confused. I've been close friends with this guy for about two years. He's one of my best friends and we've always treated each other like brother and sister; giving each other nuggies, Charlie horses, making fun of each other, etc. Over the last couple months when we'd go over to each others houses we'd cuddle on couches while we watch movies or just cuddle and talk on each others beds. At the time it didn't seem weird but afterward it didn't seem normal. About a months ago when I was at his house we were joking around pretending to touch tongues, and when we did we continued to do it for some reason. Then about 2 weeks ago when me and him went to our other friends house and we were cuddling while watching a movie with the lights off while our friend was in the washroom and we touched tongues again (I don't know why we do this..) then we kissed. It wasn't weird afterward, we acted normal but it confused me a bit. we both didn't mention it again, then just yesterday we were at our friends again and our friend fell asleep so we were cuddling on the couch with the lights off again and we made out. I don't know if I like him, I like kissing him, and it's still not weird when we hang out. I really like him as a friend but I also like kissing him. I don't know if i like him more than a friend now though. I'm just confused :(
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reader, The Realist +, writes (17 March 2011):
 A two of my friends tend to do that often, a while back I even did that with a few friends. You two can stay friends although it may become awkward if one of you gets a relationship when the other one is still single but you two can keep it in all good fun. It will be confusing and it just takes time to see how your feelings decide to work themselves out.
Have your fun if you want to but I reccomend making sure that you two are on the same page so no one gets hurt.
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