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female
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30-35,
*ass234
writes:Sorry this is long , but if you read this and comment i really appreciate it...Ive been with my bf for 2 years. Before we dated we were best friends , he always had a crush on me and we dated when we were 11 , im 18 now btw. And anyways one night i just fell in love with him and thats when we started to date, I have been living together with him and his family (because my household is too crazy) for about a year, long story short for the first year and a half he treated me bad i had the two worst summers of my life , he hasnt cheated on me or anything he just was mean to me and there were points through this relationship where he would not compliment me or want to even hang out with me, and when he gets mad he freaks out h has even broken a cell phone of mine,and has called me names and etc.we have broken up several times but its always been him leaving me. I have talked to other guys but i have never cheated or done anything bad. And now im at this point where i dont know if i want to stay in this relationship anymore i love him more then anything and would not want to be with any other guy , and it would kill me to see him with another girl. Im so lost , we've talked about it but nothing has really come out of it. I just dont know what to do!
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reader, dirtball  +, writes (18 March 2011):
 He's controlling and abusive. Right now that's confined to verbal abuse, but that's usually the gateway. You think you love him, but love doesn't make you feel this miserable. He won't change, because he has no reason to want to. He can control you just as he wants. He's beaten you into submission.
He does not love you. He never will. You need to get out.
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