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writes:Hello everyone please help me.....I am 15 years old and my friend is 18 years old we know each other from 1 year...we met online....I broke-up with my boyfriend...My boyfriend was older than me (26)...He never loved me....He said that he don't like me...I was depressed...my online friend helped me....He know everything about me...After my break-up I started liking him more than a friend....I know about his past gf...she left him...I told him my feelings for him.....He is sad...He don't like me more than a friend.....He said that he have girlfriend , after break-up they met on facebook and patch-up again...I said sorry to him...I didn't wanted to hurt me....I didn't knew that he is in a relationship...I told him that its not his mistake but he is blaming himself.....I don't want to lose a special friend :(should I stop talking to him for sometime? please help me...
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reader, anonymous, writes (23 March 2011): This is verified as being by the original poster of the questionThanks for replying we are still talking....but sometimes he is ignoring me :(
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reader, Gabrielle Stoker  +, writes (18 March 2011):
 You may want to take a little break to deal with your feelings, but there's no reason to stop talking to the guy altogether.
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reader, anonymous, writes (17 March 2011): I have been in the same situation with a guy who had a girl-friend yet listened to me when I needed a shoulder to lean on. I also became emotionally attached to him and he continues to not have any feelings for me. If you think you can see him as a great friend without expecting more, then you can be friends respecting he just does not have the same feelings for you. I found focusing on my education, hobbies or activities I liked, learning some new skill or getting involved in something I was passionate about helped me use my time and energy in a postive way. There is someone out there just for you who will make all the effort to show it. Hope this helps.
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