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*hyme420
writes:dear cupid, i am geting anoyed with my husband's porn. not only has he purchased many dvds of porn but its everywhere on our computer, on our ps3, one our phone, and he even orders it through our cable! I found all this out about a month ago on our cell phone bill (which we share all of these things because we can not aford to each have separate ) i know he masterbates daily (at least) and it dosent bother me because ocasonoly i do myself but i just can not shake the feeling of jelousy. in my mind i feel im not atractive enough for him. our sex life is health but the little green jelousy monster is still there. my questions are should i feel jelous and anoyed that there is porn everywhere!?
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reader, Cupid Boy  +, writes (18 March 2011):
 At least to me, it seems rather absurd that a married man - especially one in a happy and still relatively new relationship - would be keeping that much porn around, and that to many in society this is considered normal.
To put it another way, it's fine and normal to like alcoholic drinks. Does that mean it's fine for someone to keep beer in their desk at work, a flask under the bed, whiskey in the car, as well as ordering it through home delivery?
If I were you, I'd be jealous and annoyed too. Probably so would he if the situation were reversed. If you plan to have kids, you definitely should come to some resolution and set some limits first, so they don't grow up in a porn household.
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reader, person12345 +, writes (17 March 2011):
 The question is not should you, but do you? Since you do you have to decide what part of it annoys you. Is it the excessive amount? Is it the money? Are you just opposed to it in all circumstances? You need to talk to him to try to come up with a reasonable compromise.
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