A
female
age
36-40,
*emonyliz
writes:Ok so I wrote a post about this a while back and how the guy I am with takes forever to finish during sex, and normally can't finish without oral stimulation of a hand job-- and even then sometimes he just has to finish himself or to speed the process along himself so that I can make him cum. I am talking at least 1 1/2 to 2 hours minimum, not counting foreplay. He keeps an erection the entire time and in general gets hard very easily. He says he is really attracted to me, and we are very creative/have a good time etc. but I just can't seem to get him to finish without it taking hours and without oral/hand stimulation. there has only been 2 times where he finished vaginally, and in general, I just took the advice of everyone from the last post and have just been trying to understand that this is how he is and get used to it. (obviously there are worse problems then a guy lasting too long) but I am apartment sitting for him right now and while I was putting away laundry I found a penis pump in his drawer. Now I'm kind of wondering if there is more to this. I thought penis pumps were used to help you get an erection-- but that doesn't seem to be his problem... is there a chance he has Erectile Dysfunction? and if so, knowing this, is there anything I can do to help?
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reader, anonymous, writes (15 March 2011): Either the use of the pump has created the problem or he got the pump for masturbation because of the problem. Ie. his hands kept getting tired.
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