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female
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41-50,
anonymous
writes: Had a one night stand with a man I like a lot as a friend. It was great, and I quite sure that I would like to see him again. How do I make sure whether he feels the same way ?
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reader, anonymous, writes (19 March 2011): Thanks all for the advice :) really appreciate you taking time out to answer.So ! It's been a week, we see each at work. He asked me out to get coffee. texting, friendly chat etc are happening. But am still confused about whether we are gonna get together again. Why are men not direct ?
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reader, anonymous, writes (14 March 2011): I'd think carefully before you did this again because you'll likely get attached and he won't.
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reader, aunt honesty +, writes (14 March 2011):
All you can do is talk to him and see how he feels about what happened.
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reader, anonymous, writes (14 March 2011): By asking him...
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reader, Weeks +, writes (14 March 2011):
Usually, satisfaction in such sessions is mutual and there is a high likelyhood he would have enjoyed it too.You said that he is a friend, so I believe that you both meet in groups or just the two of you.Act your normal self with a little extra warmth in your next meeting. If you can, tell him that you liked the previos meeting. Don't push for it and things may follow. He will lead.
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