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writes:I have a girl I am trying to get with still. I compliment her as much as I can, not trying to score points but of genuine belief, she often says I am 'crazy, mad' etc etc. I have still persisted, but today for some reason I have snapped, I haven't let her know it yet, but I am now thinking, what is the point? Do I want a simple thank you, or that is kind of you? So frustrating.It's always me asking to speak to her, always contacting, she does at times but not at the same voracity as I do, I actually hold back contact. I'm thinking of taking a back seat and seeing how she reacts or if she notices, or should I raise the issue with her? She knows I like her yet hasn't reciprocated anything :( Reply to this Question
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reader, shawncaff  +, writes (14 March 2011):
 I do not think you should give up until you've explicitly broached the subject with her. If you are really at the breaking point, you've got nothing left to lose. Tell her you are interested and how you feel and that you need some feedback or else you will need to move on.
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reader, CaringGuy +, writes (14 March 2011):
I would give up at this point. You've really given it all you can, but it just seems like she's not really interested, or is just trying to have her cake and eat it at her pleasure. Don't bother wasting time holding back, because that'll only stop the problem temporarily.
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reader, StarryEyes101 +, writes (14 March 2011):
 You seem like a really nice guy. I think you should back off a bit. See if she starts making the move. I'm exactly the same as you. But you'll be surprised when you stop making an effort for a while...
Hope this helps =)
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