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writes:Any advice about people who deliberately try home wrecking and try to destroy other peoples happy relationships and happiness in general, why do people do this/. is it jealousy? or some other deep routed problem? if you see somebody happy in life i can not relate to how another person would want to destroy that in any way. I ask this because i know someone who had their whole world litterally destroyed by this evil person who deliberately went out of their way just to prove a point that they could succeed in doing so, like they played some sick game or something. Is this exceptable and what should and can be done about people who possess this evil nature?
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reader, eyeswideopen  +, writes (15 March 2011):
 A gazillion = heaps and scads plus 3
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reader, anonymous, writes (14 March 2011): Yeah, there are bad people out there, no big surprise. What can you do about it? Stay away from them. Is it acceptable? Yeah, to them it is.
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reader, anonymous, writes (14 March 2011): Dont be delusional...The only people that can wreck their relationship is the two people involved...Eve if one of them strays, you cannt blame a third party cos you who is in the relationship are the one responsible for it...A lot of people(women especially) would like to put the bame n the other woman rather than face the truth that their partner messed up.....You be surprised to know how some men delibrately chase other women even when they are married..they chase and chase until they wear her down or catch her in a vulnerable moment...While I agree some people do chase after other peoples partners and this is not right but there are serveral sides to the story , people have their versions but there is always the version of the truth...Dont worry about people who delibrately go out to destroy others in the end, if they do not repent they essentially destroy themselves cos when a good thing comes their way they most likely will destroy it ut of habit....
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reader, anonymous, writes (14 March 2011): I think that deep-seated envy is indeed at the root of that. Unfortunately, there are individuals who actively make destroying the lives of innocent people their reason to be; their only satisfaction in life comes from taking away the happiness of others. It's absolutely unacceptable of course, but you can't change evil people - only they have the power to make that happen, and more often than not they have no intention of doing so. All you can do is try to protect yourself and your loved ones from their wicked influence by sticking together and not allowing anyone to trick you into working against yourselves. It's not easy... but believe me, you aren't alone in your fight against those who have given in to the dark side of human nature. All the best :)
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reader, anonymous, writes (14 March 2011): Hey what the hell is a gazillion? 4.4 million or something like gallon is equal to 4.4 litres...
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reader, anonymous, writes (14 March 2011): The kind of people who do this sort of thing are scheming flithy manipulating rats! who cannot bear the thought of anybody getting on well in life because theirs is so messed up!
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reader, eyeswideopen +, writes (14 March 2011):
You must realize there are a gazillion answers to a question like this?!
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