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writes:hi im 15 nd how do i persuade my mom to let me stay at a guys sleep over even though i say hes gay. I have had recent sleep overs but when i came home i had to ask my mom for a pregnancy test. so now she doesnt trust me. I am trying to tell her i wont do anything but she just wont listen. Please please please help me with what i should tell her.Thank you for your opinions.
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reader, Honeypie +, writes (14 March 2011):
 I don't blame your mother. The thing with trust is, once you lose it, it's pretty hard to regain. You need to show your mom that YOU can be trusted.
Maybe you need to talk to your mother about birth control, if you are already having sex.
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reader, aunt honesty  +, writes (14 March 2011):
 Am afraid there is nothing you can say to her. You will need to earn that trust back again. She is only worrying about you as a mother. For a start you are underage and should not be having sex, and secondly if you were looking for a pregnancy test then you obviously werent safe. Just remember that you can also catch a lot of nasty infections as well as getting pregnant and you should always use protection.
I really dont think there is anything you can say to your mother in order for her to change her mind. She is trying to protect you. So instead of trying to persuade her to let you stay over at some boys house, be mature and show her you are growing up. Tell her you respect her decision and find other things to do with your time, until you are old enough to be having sex with boys.
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