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writes:HiMy bf broke up with me 5 months back. I was devastated for sometime and i got over him. We are good friends now.But my ex-bf keeps talking about our past sex-life with me. I told him that i am just a friend and i dont want to do anything sexual with him. He says ok and then again next time he does the same. I asked him whether he like to date me again, he said 'NO', we are only freinds. How to make him stop talking about sex, we are really good friends, but this sex talk is really making me uncomfortable.
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reader, anonymous, writes (22 March 2011): He doesn't want to be "friends", he wants to be casual sex partners and is seeing how much he can get away with.
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reader, anonymous, writes (14 March 2011): I agree with Capri2...
This is just another reason why I don't think it's a good idea to try and remain friends with an ex.
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reader, AuntyEm  +, writes (14 March 2011):
 He is being disrespectful mentioning your sex life when you are now just friends. You need to tell him straight to his face 'Stop talking about our past sex life or the friendship ends' He should get the message loud and clear. He doesn't want to date you again so if he messes up again it's time to 'kerb' him.
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reader, lakers_lover09 +, writes (14 March 2011):
Tell him if he values ur friendship he will stop. If he is a friend he will if not than he is usin u for sex . U still have feelings I think so be careful
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reader, Capri2  +, writes (14 March 2011):
Maybe he just want to upgrade your relationship to friend with benefits. I can't think of another thing.
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