A
female
age
26-29,
anonymous
writes:Hey, this is going to be verrrrrry long:/ soo about four weeks ago my boyfriend, E, of 1 year and 4 months broke up with me because we were fighting a lot. He wasnt really happy so we started fighting about our relationship. So we broke up.Then a few days later he said he missed me and he wanted to get together and talk about it. The next day we were going to talk at his house, but half way through the day he decided he wanted to stay single. Two weeks pass and Im good, I realized it really wasnt working out and it wasnt healthy for me, so I switched out of the class I had with him and was in a much better mood. So last saturday (March 5th) I had two of my girls over and and I invited my guy friend, G, over who brought his friend, A, too. And it was SOOO much fun. A was being flirty with me. So I started texting A. He is sooo sweet and he makes me smile,a lot. Its soo bad though because Ive only known him 8 days. But wednesday (March 10th) E texted me and said he missed me and he realizes that he could have done better in our relationship and he knows he can change. So he comes over to talk about things and he has changed, a lot. We have been hanging out and he is soo different and happy. Yesterday I was with my Friend, D. She said that she used to hang out with E and her friend M,that is a girl, alot when me and E were dating. I didnt know that. And if I confront E about it, he will just say "it was in the past, Im looking towards that future with youu"Here is my problem: I think about A a lot still. When we talked we would make like plans, like swimming and hanging out in the summer and going to this teen club thing together. SSo when Im alone I want to be with him and I think about all the plans that we made. But when Im with E, I want to be with him and I like it cause he is soo happy. I just dont know what boy to choose. Cause they both make me happpy. Lately I have been thinking about going with A instead of E because I cant get him out of my mind, but I cant find the guts to break up with E... What would you do? Sorry for the all the letters and how long it is :/
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reader, girlwhoneedshelp  +, writes (14 March 2011):
 I say go with A. If you are constantly thinking of him then in your mind he is more important. Don't stay with someone who seems to change their mind like the wind, even if they are doing better now. He had the guts to break things off with you so you can do the same.
Tell him it just isn't working and the time you were apart you developed feelings for someone else that you just can't kick. Life is too short to stay with someone but dream of another.
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