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female
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30-35,
anonymous
writes:Me and my boyfriend had broke up 9 months ago. In this 9 months i really had a suffering time. I miss him alot ,i wanted him back. but, he just wouldn't talk to me. he wouldn't accept me as facebook friends and any other social website. I was feeling so depressed. I wanted to talk to him again. We were in the same high school, but he just turn away when he sees me, i dont understand why. He often gossip and talk bad about me with his friends.he and his friend was laughing about me everytime my friends and i accidentaly met them somewhere else. I don't know if they were talking about me or? I'm feeling so stres over it. There were once he start dating again, and that girl was my close friend, i talked bad about him infront of her, and they broke up. My friend even asked him why he wouldn't admit that i'm he's ex girlfriend. He answered that the reason is because, he wants to make me hates him. What's the point of doing so?I don't know if he's angry about me. But, till then he didn't scold me or anything. I still love him a lot, I want him back. But, he just wouldn't care? What should i do?
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reader, justfriends  +, writes (15 March 2011):
 he wants you to hate him because he feels sad about you two breaking up. I remember having to think I hated this girl so much and had to convince myself she hated me to make myself feel better. I took it out on myself like everything was my fault even know I was not the one who cheated on someone. anyway I would say that you love him still and if that doesn't work than its something different that what I was talking about earlier. there is a quote for this something like "now I have to convince myself I hate you" or something like that because I know it has helped me before. I also listened to some sad and emotional music. I hope for you that if you tell him how you feel he will come back to you. message me if you need help with anything else cause im pretty sure I am doing the same thing now as your ex with the girl I love right now.
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