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*amurai21
writes:I met this girl when i was in college. Initially we were very good friend and then we fell in love. After college she went abroad for higher studies and I took up a job. We shared 3 yrs of relationship but half of it was long distance. She used to tell me that she loves me a lot and she cant think of anyone else except me but sometimes she used to be upset that I am not with her. I left my job and went for higher studies in the same university so that I can be with her. I traveled thousands of miles, left my family, my friends so that I can be with my love. Just before my travel dates, she told me that I shudnt come because she doesn feels for me anymore and she wants to end this relationship. One month back she was really very happy that I was coming for her but I dun understand what exactly happened. I din had any options cuz i left my job and told every1 back at home that I am leavin. I was in such a pathetic situation in which i was clueless about wat to do nxt. Stay back or go for the girl. I decided to travel and convince her but she was so damn rude and blunt on my face. Rite now we are in same university. I am so alone over here. I still love her so much . I really dunno wat to do. I cant concentrate on my studies. I cant sleep well... cant eat properly... I get nitemares... i drink n smoke a lot. On the other hand she is totally fine wid her life. She hangs out wid friends, goes for clubbing. She doesn thinks about me anymore. I dont understand how can a person change like this. Three months back she used to say tat I am the love of her life and she cant live without me and now she doesn even cares if I exist. How can she forget everythin. The worst part is when we met for a coffee, she told me that she was really happy about the fact that she broke up wid me and she doesn cares wat i think abt her. I cant even think of hurting her in my wildest dreams n she is doing all this to me. How can someone be so cruel. Its been 2 months and I am still not over her. I still love her so much and thinks that one day she will come back to me.
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reader, koolguynir  +, writes (9 October 2011):
Dude , I'm sorry about your situation dude ... Hope things will turn out better than you've always wanted it to be ... Guess what ... the reason i looked this up was cauz i am going to be doing exactly the same thing .... for the love of my life ...we known each other for over 8 years now ... and i've dated for say 5 months ... we broke up when a crazy fight got outta hand .... she tried patching it up ... and sorting things out with me ... i behaved like a total ass .... shezz the sweetest person i know ... shez been crying a lot ... to add salt to wound .. i was kindda with another gal for a few days .... n now i've totally lost her .... by the time i realised the true worth of her .. shezz gone ... but i aint gonna let it go .. for i know for sure .. she loves me with all her love ... and shezz jus angry ..scared and upset .. i am going to be leaving in another 3 days ... i am travelling half way across the world to meet her ... fingerzz crossed my friend ... i'd break if i dont end up spending my life with her ... i love her a lot .... i'll let ya know wht happens .... u cheer up .. jus like how i realised late .. maybe ...she'll realise someday ...
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reader, janniepeg +, writes (14 March 2011):
 She wants to be liked, but she doesn't want you. You gambled and lost. Your love didn't survive past the initial sparks, or the infatuation. The promises meant nothing if you only count on the sweet little nothings uttered at a moment of passion, but no reality to back it up. Make up the lost by getting the best grades in your university, make the best out of your experience for the rest of your college career. It's better to have loved than to not love at all. Maybe a few years later you would find out it's the feelings of love that you loved, and not really her as a person.
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