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*jroller14
writes:I tell my friend CR all my secrets she is like my sista.I was texting her the other day I was thinking about breaking up with my BF because of all the drama in my life right now. She told me she wasn't gonna tell him either.When I got to school today he was acting weird. Then before my third hour class he gave me a note and walked off.The not read: "CR was texting me last night. She said you wanted to break up with me. And if that is what you want and what you think would be best for us then go or it!"that made me wanna scream! she broke her promise and that note broke my heart.I thought about all the night before and i wasn't gonna break up with him....he is the love of my life!!!!And now I have no idea what to do, can you help me?
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reader, Sjroller14 +, writes (15 March 2011):
Sjroller14 is verified as being by the original poster of the question Thank you for the help.
I talked to him and now things are back to normal. He loves me and I love him. :)
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reader, janniepeg  +, writes (14 March 2011):
 It's easier to say things you don't fully mean when you are texting. Thinking about breaking up because of all the drama in your life is totally different from wanting to break up, period. You have to straighten it out with your boyfriend, not by text, but by person. Because the break up message is done through a third source, again through a text, your boyfriend wants to hear your input first, before making a conclusion. You probably broke his heart that you can't talk to him. On the other hand girlfriends are there for us for a reason because sometimes we don't feel comfortable talking to our boyfriends. Sometimes it's through contemplating about a breakup that makes us realize what we are going to lose if an actual break up happened.
It's possible that your friend likes your boyfriend. It's also possible she just being a little too "helpful," because you can't do it yourself. At the end, the issue is between you and your boyfriend. However angry you are, you should talk to your friend about how upset you are that she broke her promise, and that you just needed to have someone listen to you, and that's it.
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