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anonymous
writes:My ex boyfriend broke up with me about a month and half ago but I'm still in love him. I miss him so much and I really want him back. When he broke up with me I was so hurt and angry that I said some really mean things to him. At that time, I told myself I could never go back to him so I told him everything about him and the things he did when we were together that I hated and hurt me that I held back. However, now I want him back and I regret letting those mean things come out. I've tried apologizing so many times but since I've said those mean things he hasn't responded to any of my calls, texts or emails. What's wrong with me? Why am I still trying to contact and still trying to get back with my ex when he hasn't talked me in over a month and half?I know that he isn't right for me and I shouldn't want to be with him because he really hurt me when he ended things but my heart loves him still. What should I do?
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reader, GeeGee255 +, writes (15 March 2011):
 I think you may just regrett your harsh words and feel bad that you lashed out at him in pain. So now you feel guilty, and like you can't let it go until he forgives you.
You also probably wish things hadn't ended that way between you and wish he would talk to you again so you could tell him that. Well, maybe it wasn't nice to say those things to him, but it certainly isn't the worse thing a girl ever did when their boyfriend dumped them unexpectedly either. I'm sure he knows that you were really hurt and angry when you said them.
What you seem to be forgetting here is that he wanted to break up with you BEFORE he heard how you really felt about him down deep. So even if he forgives you for saying it, he won't forget what you said, and I doubt he will ever want you back as his girlfriend. A guy's ego just isn't that strong.
You have tried to apologize several times, and have received no response from him, so all you can do now is let him go and move on.
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