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writes:Hi! Ahm, I'm really worried about my boyfriend... We are together since we were 13 years old (now we're 17), but the last months he was really weird, I mean, we're out of school now, he's at university right now and I'm at home 'cause classes begin on September. He said he needs to be with friends and that stuff, but I feel not confident because girls he frequent to. I don't know what to do, 'cause he told me he's not in love any more, but when he is with me, alone at home, is like he opens himself and is honest... Also he always wants me to hold him or kiss him. I know I have to make him be in love again with me, not like an obligation, I mean, in a good way... but I don't know exactly what to do now.
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reader, anonymous, writes (18 March 2011): Honey, one thing you need to know is that you CANNOT make someone fall in love with you...and you do not have to..Why the desperation??...Just the way you have your independent feelings so do men.....sadly the more you try to make him fall in love with you the more distant he will become....If he is not chasing you, do not make the mistake of chasing him, pleading and trying to convince him, it wont work...You are stil very young, so dont make this break-up any longer and more painful than it need be....If he comes back to you let him do it because he wants to cos if you force it he will only most probably leave again....Do you know that a girl that is not clingy is a lot more attractive than one who is?...Learn to know when to let go
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reader, anonymous, writes (15 March 2011): Ok so me and my boyfriend have been together since we were 13 and now we are 19, the same thing happened in november. he started acting weird and finally told me he didnt love me anymore. He wanted to stay friends because I do a lot for him and he didnt want to lose that. you cant do that though. the best thing to do is cut it off completely. dont talk to him at all. He cant miss you if he still has you. And 2 weeks later he came back and has been totally different in a great way. but you have to let him know that he cant treat you that way. If he doesnt come back he isnt worth it. hope it helps
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