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writes:hi. i am a 21 yr old guy. i m into a relationship with a gal 1 and a half yrs younger to me from past 3yrs. i think m extra possessive. i always comment on her clothes which are deep neck or short waist. i don't like this cuz of which i irritate her to wear stole or long clothes which can look decent. i fight alt. and i don't like she gettin too friendly with guys. i know m wrong but i can't make my self understand this. we broked up somedays back. now m feeling weird. i know i deserve this but just need some opinion how to get rid of this orthodox behaviour of mine. her family is too modern and mine is totally opposite. pls help Reply to this Question
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reader, anonymous, writes (14 March 2011): look...put it this way, no girl will like it when someone is extra possessive of her. Imagine u have a wife that keeps questioning you everyday about ur female colleuges at work or sth...isnt that annoying? think about it that way and talk it out with ur ex again..and if she is still pissed at u then just move on.
just remember, try being open minded all the time because being over possessed is very annoying..i have gone through it...which is why i dumped my bf
good luck
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reader, GeeGee255  +, writes (14 March 2011):
 All you can do is tell her how nice she looks when she wears less reveiling clothing and maybe you could offer to take her shopping and buy her an outfit or two she looks good in and is more appropriate to you taste as well.
Has she ever seen the Juliet Roberts movie, Pretty Woman?
If she has tell why men find her classy transformation much more becoming and beautiful then when she wore short skirts and low cut tops as a prostitute. Yes she was always sexy but men only wanted to use her when she dressed like that, not marry her.
Finally, about the other guys, do you really thing she might cheat on you or is she just talking and being friendly? She is still very young so maybe you just have to give her a few more years to grow up before she is ready to be with you and get married. If she can't have fun and enjoy herself now then when can she??
But if you still feel like you (or your family) will never be able to accept her modern ways then it would be better for you both to end it now. Maybe she isn't he girl for you.
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