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female
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51-59,
anonymous
writes:I feel messed up. I had a boyfriend of 4yrs who went off with my best mate and that really messed my head up. Especially since he was my first love. Although it has been years now I still cant get him out of my head.And another relationship since that has turned out really bad. Although he was my ex we were very close friends. I just know he wanted more than I could give. He has disappeared and no one knows where he is. He is now a missing person. He had bipolar and I knew it really wouldn't work living together. Even so he was very special to me and we found a way to keep our intimate friendship together. It's taken me years to get over that. I haven't really dated anyone since that.These two experiences have really crushed me. I had no confidence growing up and when my first ex met me I was really quite strong and had sorted out my head. He was at a low ebb. During our 4 years it seemed like we had our roles reversed. Me feeling depressed. Since the episode with my best mate I have found it incredibly hard to trust anyone or let them in. The only person has been the guy who has disappeared cause some guys were after him.I want to move on cause I can't carry on like this. I'm finding it very hard and my big circle of friends have dwindled to a few close mates.Has anyone been here before or has any advice. I could do with the help. I want more in my life and miss the company of a special somebody.
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reader, Kyle007  +, writes (22 January 2012):
This may be a good time to make improvements in your own life and take care of yourself the best you can.
You will feel happier about yourself, and this will attract someone better than you would in your current condition.
These look like very saddening events and these two had a bad effect on you. You need to seperate yourself from it.
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