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I feel I'm living without hope of ever having a relationship.

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Question - (14 March 2011) 1 Answers - (Newest, 15 March 2011)
A female United Kingdom age 41-50, *ush2010 writes:

Ive been single 8 months.

I am attractive and a good person. And many men do fancy me until they find out that i am 32 years old - This relates to men my own age, as well as giving or taking a couple years.

I have everything to offer but i cannot find any man that wants to be with a woman my age, and who i get on with and have chemistry with.

I am not desperate for children or marriage and the stereo typical woman in her thirties - but i do want a lasting relationship that will work towards those things.

I have tried everything - internet dating hasnt worked because most men only want to be with a younger girl or a white woman and i am brown skinned so i never fit their criteria. It makes me so sad that they wont even give me a chance based on these things.

I never meet guys in my every day life, outside of work. In bars and clubs, they tend to go for all the pretty blond young girls and i cant compete with that..

I am honestly so depressed. Lonely, missing affection, and living without hope of ever having a relationship.

What can i do? Is there a way out of this situation for me??

People always say "you'll find someone.." but i never do.

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A male reader, Weeks India +, writes (15 March 2011):

Weeks agony auntThat does seem strange. In the world as a whole, there is surely no shortage of men looking for a partner, friend or wife. One way is to widen you search location. You will surely meet your match. Only, one of you will need to move.

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