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female
age
41-50,
*ush2010
writes: Ive been single 8 months. I am attractive and a good person. And many men do fancy me until they find out that i am 32 years old - This relates to men my own age, as well as giving or taking a couple years. I have everything to offer but i cannot find any man that wants to be with a woman my age, and who i get on with and have chemistry with. I am not desperate for children or marriage and the stereo typical woman in her thirties - but i do want a lasting relationship that will work towards those things. I have tried everything - internet dating hasnt worked because most men only want to be with a younger girl or a white woman and i am brown skinned so i never fit their criteria. It makes me so sad that they wont even give me a chance based on these things. I never meet guys in my every day life, outside of work. In bars and clubs, they tend to go for all the pretty blond young girls and i cant compete with that..I am honestly so depressed. Lonely, missing affection, and living without hope of ever having a relationship. What can i do? Is there a way out of this situation for me?? People always say "you'll find someone.." but i never do.
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reader, Weeks +, writes (15 March 2011):
That does seem strange. In the world as a whole, there is surely no shortage of men looking for a partner, friend or wife. One way is to widen you search location. You will surely meet your match. Only, one of you will need to move.
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