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writes:My friend and I got drunk and we made out but we both have a boyfriend. I told mine and he was okay with it but its a little awkward between me and my friend. I hate myself cause I didnt stop when she started and cause i kinda liked it but now i'm afraid it'll ruin our friendship. I wonder how she feels about all of this but I'm afraid to ask her in case it gets even more awkward... Should I just forget everything??..
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reader, anonymous, writes (14 March 2011): This is verified as being by the original poster of the questionWe agreed to never drink alone again. Also i'm trying to forget everything and just let it go but its a little hard... Maybe i'll try to talk to her about it and see if we're cool. The complicated part is that i liked it but still wouldn't do anything to harm our friendship even thought i wonder how she felt.
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reader, janniepeg +, writes (14 March 2011):
 It's hard to forget everything because you crossed the boundary and the friendship isn't the same anymore. A lot of girls, including me, have a little lesbian desire kept in a hidden, secret place and alcohol can help bring it out to the surface. Maybe you can both agree that you shouldn't drink together in private. She is the one who started all this so all you have to do is stop the physical aspect from developing further. You don't have to bring it up. If she brings it up tomorrow or later in the future, just laugh it off as something crazy you dared to do. But deep down inside you know this is serious stuff. No matter if your friend is man or woman, it's still consider cheating. If the friendship can't continue because of its awkwardness, maybe it's meant to be that way but show that you still value the friendship anyway.
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