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writes:How mad should I be at my gf? She let some guy write his name on her cleavage once and now she said she cheated on me by kissing another girl. I really love her and don't want to break up with her but what should I do? This is long distance for now because I'm in the army and she's only 18 I think it might be a maturity thing?what should I do or say?
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reader, GeeGee255 +, writes (16 March 2011):
 It is an age thing and a long distance thing. Neither one is very healthy for a long term relationship.
Have you ever thought about just telling her that you love her, but since you can't be with her right now that maybe she should use this time to explore her options and just enjoy being young and free for awhile?
Tell her you will look her up when you get back, and if you are both still free maybe you two can try again.
After all if she can't learn and grow and explore now, then when can she? After she is married with children?
Do you really want to tie her down and hold her back like that? Eventually I think she would come to resent it, even if she doesn't think so right now.
I know that is probably not what you wanted to here but you are going to be away for what? 3-4 years. She is going to grow up a lot in that time. And people change no matter how hard you try to stop them.
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