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male
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30-35,
anonymous
writes:I'm going through a rough time with dealing with my ex. we broke up unexpectelfy in january and she started dating a new guy around vday. she goes days without talking to me and then will contact me out of the blue and disappear after a few short words. i tried going no contact but she simply will not let me. she says i cant stop her form txting me. she says she needs me in her life and that i mean the world to her. she says she misses me alot too. she said that she isnt ok with the fact that im trying to push her away but ii texplain to her that i cannot be around while she has a bf she calls me babe and whenever we see e/o, we are very comfortable. i touch her she touched me we sit side by side and talk, but she has a BF. i told her i would check up on her every now and again and she said the same. so my question is: Why is she fighting this hard to keep me in her life when she has a bf now?
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reader, anonymous, writes (15 March 2011): If you're the one who ended the relationship, she's still in love with you and wants to remain your girlfriend and is trying to make you jealous with the other guy hoping that you will tell her to ditch him and be your gf again. If she's the one who ended the relationship, she's a selfish, cruel, immature, two timing skank who wants to have you and other guys at the same time and by contacting you every so many days and then disappearing until another few days is her way of playing on your heart and emotions for her so she can keep you into her and unable to move on while she plays the field. She could also be keeping you on board in case things don't work out as she hopes with the other dude.Either way what she's doing to you is selfish, cruel, immature and manipulative and you should completely sever all ties with her unless of course she's doing it because you dumped her and she's going to a desperate pathetic extreme to win you back. Then you two would need to have a serious sit down and handle whatever it is that you two want with each other in a mature honest manner.This is crazy bullshit going down. Too much unnecessary work. Communication is lacking big time. Good luck either way!
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