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*adyIris
writes:My boyfriend and I have been dating for 2 weeks and we already have problems. He used to text me all the time and slowly stopped now he isnt texting at all. I wanted to hang out spring break and he promised he would but he didnt. I had a fight with him about how i got my grades up just for him and i to spend time together and how I felt about not texting me. He said lets just date in college this is too much stress! and after we went back and forth for awhile over text when i said its over he said lets please stay together. So I said ok fine... he says he loves me and so do his friends. But im so confused and upset i dont know what to do!
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reader, GeeGee255 +, writes (14 March 2011):
 Be glad you found out that he isn't capable of giving you what you want or need after just 2 weeks, and dump him.
Cause if he is this bad now, I can only imagine how bad he will be a year from now.
This is the time when you too should be so gaga over each other that you talk for hours each night and can't bare to be apart for even a day. And then after a year or two it should settle down into something more realistic, but still loving.
Unless he lives far away from you and had to work over the break for money for school or something. You should never have to wonder where you stand with a guy, if he can't keep a date with you he should care enough to explain why immediately. And then offer to make it up to you asap. So did this guy tell you he would be pretty busy over spring break but would try to see you? Or did he just flaked out on you for no reason with no explaination? If he doesn't have a good reason then you'd be a fool to take him back.
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reader, Amanda12345678910  +, writes (14 March 2011):
if he tells you he likes you and asked to stay together whats the problem? he might not want to go too fast or need some space. how much time do you actulaly spend together? i know me and my boyfriend like to take a break from eachother every now and again 'absense makes the heart grow fonder' ever heard of it? well its means exacly what it says. just a cheeky tect now and again can be better than 24 7 not as specail. good luck gorgeous xxx
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