A
female
age
26-29,
anonymous
writes: So I really like this guy and a lot of times he seems like he likes me but he is really into sports and always says that he doesnt have time to have a girlfriend. Whenever I mention subtle things about him getting a gf hes like ha me? girlfriend? im never gonna have a girlfriend i spend all my time doing sports. What should i do? Reply to this Question Share |
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female
reader, LizBeth +, writes (15 March 2011):
I would believe him. At this point in his life, he doesn't want a girlfriend. Assuming that he is in your age range, it's not unusual for him to be taken up with sports. And, it doesn't mean that things won't change when he's older. My suggestion, don't hang around thinking it's going to happen at any moment. Be friends with him, but quit bringing up the girlfriend stuff. Leave it be. And don't chase him - that will just turn him off.
Oh, and if some other boy asks you out - GO!
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