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female
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30-35,
anonymous
writes:I love my boyfriend very much. Even if he had failed me from the very first time he told me he liked me. He gets mad at me for no reason most of the time. Like he would break up with me out of no where, then we would get back together and for him, it's as if he never even hurt me. But I would just let that pass because I love him... I've done so many things for him, stupid things... Like running away with him, being sent into rehab by my mother (after running away), getting pregnant but my immune system couldn't take it....... so our baby's heart stopped beating maybe it was also because he would stress me too much... I gave up everything for him and I feel like, he doesn't do the same for me. Especially now.. I've lied a couple times from him but it was only because I was scared of him... Sometimes he would even physically abuse me... I always try to let him go but I end up asking him to stay after a while... Maybe it was because of everything we've been through together. He's been hurt by his past girlfriends before... And yeah.. I completely lost my friends because all I think and talk about is him him him... We do webcam 24/7 when we are not together... When we are together, he has my phone... He checks my log everytime.. Etc.. I know he is not cheating on me... I'm sure... But what does this mean? He tells me he never loved anyone as much as he loves me and shit... When we are together, we are okay... But when we are not, we are not... Help? :(
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reader, GeeGee255  +, writes (14 March 2011):
 You will never find happiness or peace until you learn one important thing, to first love yourself.
Only then will you demand to be treated with love and respect in your relationships. The boyfriend who are with now, thinks why should I respect her when she doesn't even respect herself, and it shows in the way he treats you.
Giving a guy everything and letting him abuse you without complaining is NEVER going to win his love, only his contempt.
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