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writes:Hello, I am 20 years old and I am in love with a woman about five years older than me that I work with. However, there are several factors that stand as obstacles and I am not sure if they can be conquered. She is of Jewish faith, and I recently found out from another coworker that she is a virgin. I am not of any faith, and I am certainly not a virgin. I wish there was a way to tell her, but I just feel like it isn't even a possibility with the 2 things I mentioned. Is there any thing I can say/do that might possibly make this one in a million woman have an interest in me? Please help!
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reader, So_Very_Confused +, writes (15 March 2011):
 Is she a religious Jew? If so she probably would not date you.
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reader, anonymous, writes (14 March 2011): To the person who answered: No, we are not dating, just co-workers. I want to ask her out, not even really for sexual purposes but just to see if we'd work well together. The problem is, even if we did go out on a date, there's very little chance of it ever getting past that point.
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reader, anonymous, writes (14 March 2011): You can't undo your sexual experience but there is the possibility of converting to her religion - if you feel you can. Are you actually dating this woman, or just thinking about her? If you are dating her, then this is something you both need to talk about. If you found out from someone else she is a virgin, it suggests you aren't speaking to her about this, although she is the person you want to be in a relationship with.
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