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30-35,
anonymous
writes:my girlfriend just broke up wit me. i liked this girl for years . we were friends for 4 years then when i asked her out she said yes . before breaking up wit me she told me that after breaking up wit her ex boyfriend she promised her self she would never fall in love again . she said when i asked her out she didnt have any feelings for me but still said yes later as time passed she started to like me a little but now she has no feelings for me....she still wants us to be friends......what should i do i m completely broke.....plz give me some advice to get over it....i still love this girl
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reader, aunt honesty  +, writes (14 March 2011):
 Honestly it is very hard to get over someone and be there friend at the same time. I think the best way for you to get over this girl is to tell her you cannot be friends. Tell her you still love her and you need to deal with that on your own, as it would just be to hard for you to be only friends with her when you are still in love with her.
So cut all contact with her, delete her phone number, email and any social networks and give yourself time to heal. Keep yourself as busy as you can. Try filling your time up with things that you enjoy doing and things that make you feel good. Also friends are a great support at a time like this as well. So make sure you are enjoying an active social life. If you keep yourself busy and you do not contact her, then through time it will get easier, i promise. Goodluck.
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