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female
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41-50,
anonymous
writes:hi guys 17 months ago i walked in on my first love having sex with his xgf and i was so hurt i overdosed woke up the next day in the hospital mental ward. my stomach was pumped but i don't remember. i had to stay in the mental ward for 3.5 months and go to therapy for 9 months more. i've been out of therapy for 7 months and 4 months ago i felt ready to have a bf so i joined a dating site. i haven't went on any dates yet but i've become good friends with two guys from the site. i've lost all faith in love because like 35 minutes ago one of the guys that i've become good friends with is my xbf that tore my heart to pieces. i found out from his sister because his sister goes with my brother and she's staying over tonight and let me use her lap top and it has all the pictures of me that i sent the guy that i thought was Mike. I asked her where she got the pictures from and she said her brother gave her the laptop yesterday and that was his stuff and the documents file has a lot of my ims. im drifting backwards. i don't know what i should do about it. i want to talk to somebody about it but it will cause a lot of ruckus and my parents will want tailgate me all over. i give up. why is her torturing me? how can I ever move on when he blocking me from making putting mself into guys that aren't him? What did I do to make him not want me and not want me to have friends ut him? i keep wracking my brain for the answer but i keep going back to feeling like I want to od again. Will I ever be free from him? What can I do to make him go away because he doesn't want me for his gf but he's messing me about when I'm thinking he's another guy? Why cankt he just leave me alone because he's the one who dumped me and has a gf.
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reader, GeeGee255 +, writes (14 March 2011):
 What a loser, if he just wanted to know how you are doing since the breakup and the overdose, he could have just asked his siter or your brother.
So pretending to be another guy on a dating site, can only be viewed as an act of sabatoge and willful deception. My god, you already almost killed yourself because of him, what more is he trying to do to you?
I think you should tell your brother what he has been doing so he can kick his ass. Or at least royally tell him off and to stay away from you, or else!
And of course you should block him immediately so he can't contact you again. This guy is too twisted for words.
Don't him anywhere near you again. Online or otherwise.
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