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writes: Hey! Okay, so I have a problem that needs tackling... For those of you that don't know, there is a public chat site where you can talk to strangers.... a few months ago I met a fourteen year old boy who was really nice and sweet. We met up on Facebook and I gave him my itouch number after a month or two. We've been texting a lot, and he told me he loved me (not like true love, don't worry) and that when we're older we should meet. (I know he's real because it was a live webcam chat.) Recently though, his texts have been angering me. He only wants explicit pictures, and whenever I change the subject he replies "k" to all of my texts. He still starts conversations, only to move onto "k" after a few minutes. I don't want to be rude and not reply, since I still like him, but how can I make him stop being like this?
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reader, The Realist +, writes (15 March 2011):
Definitely ask him if he wants to be friends and that you're not about to do that. I really recommend not giving him any pics that you wouldn't want to be online. That includes via the phone too. I know you care about him but you still don't know what he would do with them. So yeah I would tell him that you are not going to do that and you would hope that he would forget about it otherwise you might have to stop talking to him.
Also good for you for making sure he is who he is first.
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reader, anonymous, writes (14 March 2011): Ask if he's just gonna keep being a perv or if he actually wants to talk about normal things
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