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*illy123
writes:I'm a guy. Went out with the girl of my dreams for 3 years, and spit up nearly 4 years ago. And I STILL have strong feelings for her. We had an amazing relationship, but in the end we split because we agreed we had, had our time so to speak as we were only really young at the time etc. I have had 2 long term relationships between then and now dated 3 others, but throughout that whole time I've never been able to get over her. The girl I am talking about knows how I feel and we still speak a lot and are still pretty close even now. However she still says we've had our time. But we still on occasions do things as friends, e.g. go out for drinks, cinema. I can't help but think that I am obsessed with her, but from my point of view, I've lived and experienced different things and she is still the the person I want to be with. I don't believe in soul mates and things like that but I feel like she's the other half of me. I'm very mentally aware of things and with relationships and stuff, so I know I shouldn't think that maybe I'm just not good enough for her, but it kills me to think that she would choose someone else over me. I'm not crude enough to gloat but I'm genuine and a real person.I don't know what I'll get out of writing on here, but any advise or previous experience would be much appreciated. From a guy.
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reader, hilly123 +, writes (19 March 2011):
hilly123 is verified as being by the original poster of the questionShe does know that I like her. I am trying to get over her, but at the same time I don't want to distance myself from her... realistically though I have to. Just hard when you don't want to lol.
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reader, StarryEyes101 +, writes (18 March 2011):
 Hey.
You sound like a really nice guy. She knows it as you both spend time together.
I think she wants you as a friend as she is still saying you have had your time. But would it hurt to ask her if you can see anything happen with you both in the future? As you said you can only see yourself with her. If you know how she feels the quicker you can move on and try to find someone else, or work it out with her if she wants to be with you.
I hope this helps x
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