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female
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41-50,
anonymous
writes:We have been married for 8 years now. For past few years and more so in recent 1-2 years, whenever we have sex, we role play and act like different individuals, everytime we have sex , we play different roles. Sometimes I think is it because he doesn't find me sexually attractive anymore but point is at the end I too enjoy it.We actually end up having better and more enjoyable sex compared to if we were ourselves and having sex. I just want to know if this common amongst married couples. Let me know your experiences. Reply to this Question
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reader, charliesdevil73  +, writes (14 March 2011):
 First of all, you have been married for 8 years. So add that to however long before then you started having sex. Even after 3 or 4 years you need to keep things interesting and spice it up. So at 8+ years, yeah, role playing is a good thing. I don't think he finds you unattractive or is bored, he is just trying to liven things up. Just think back to the first few times you had sex and how awesome and new it was. Sometimes it's great to have that feeling back again. And like you said, you are having better and more enjoyable sex, so keep with it and when that starts to have the "habitual" feeling, try something new.
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