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writes:Well I am 14 abd I am gonna be 15 in July. I have recentally been asked out and have been going out with this boy (I will call him toe) toe for just over two weeks and I have suddenly have a craving for a baby. Me and toe haven't talked about this craving that I am having but we have talked about babies. My friend (we will call her boo) boo asked me how far I will go with my boyfriend toe. I repiled that I ain't gonna have sex with him coz I ain't legal yet and she said rules are made to be broken. Boo is my age and boo' boyfriend is 17. I told her not to be stupid but now I am thinking that I could have sex with my boyfriend. I really want a baby but can't have one as my parents would be extremly disappointed and I have big plans for my future that don't involve a baby. My horse riding instuctor is pregnant tho so I have asked her if I can look after her baby when it is born but that only covers the looking after bit of the craving I also have a craving to feel a little baby growing inside me and to feel it kicking and moving and feeling it have the hiccups. O really don't know what to do. Any advice????????
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reader, Sweety123  +, writes (20 June 2011):
 im 15 and im also having the same cravings for a baby for me i it started wen i thought i was pregnant a year ago and know its all i think about but i was looking at some other peoples questions and alot of them r bout 15 i think it has something to do with the age
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reader, Ilovenoah +, writes (2 February 2011):
Ilovenoah is verified as being by the original poster of the questionThank you all. My boyfriend isn't 17 btw he is 15 turning 16. It is my friends boyfriend who is 17. Thanks for all the help. Xx
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reader, anonymous, writes (2 February 2011): Your still young sweetie and you said it yourself , you have big plans for your future - don't waste it! I know a lot of girls that want a baby/ 'the bump' but it's just a want you don't HAVE to have it. About the sex - don't do it until YOU are ready, it's not about your friend and what she is doing, when you are ready, be safe!!! Don't throw away your future plans for a baby you can't take care of yet, you have no job (I presume) and can't provide for another life.
Hope I've helped!! Xx
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reader, BriBri +, writes (2 February 2011):
I have always wanted a kid but you dont just have a kid because you just want one.It is alot of work.You dont want to go to sleep at 1 am then wake up at 2:30a to feed thee baby and go to school them after school go to workk it is to much.
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reader, just a female  +, writes (2 February 2011):
 ok you are way too young to have a baby. at that age you are still exploring every thing and trust me you do not want to have a baby tying you down.you say that you have big plans for your future well if you have a baby now you can cancel all those plans for about 18 years.your boyfriend is 17 you say, maybe you should find someone more your age?your friend says laws are meant to be broken, im afraid that is a really immature approach to the equation.you said before that you dont want to have sex because you are not legal, that it the right approach to have! dont listen to your friend at all, no matter what the law is the law, hard or not, you have to listen to it. the law is there to protect you from making decision that you will regret or from your older BF taking advantage of you(which could happen)does your BF want a baby? if so it shouldnt be with you, you have your whole life ahead of you for doing amazing things with your career and relationships dont spoil it right now by getting pregnant.also dont have sex now either, at 17 your BF will want it but you should give in to either your BF or your friend!please make the right decision here! dont have sex abd dont get pregnant!maybe you could start bying baby clothes to satisfy your craving for a child then you will have when you are much older. no harm in being prepared! maybe by one item a month or something?i know you will make the right decisin here, be smart, be safe and listen to the laws, they are their for your sake!good luck!xxx
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