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reader, anonymous, writes (4 February 2011): If you don't ask her why she changed you will never know for sure.
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reader, anonymous, writes (3 February 2011): See if she will explain why the sudden change.
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reader, angelDlite  +, writes (3 February 2011):
 hi
just talk to her. ask her what the problem is, sounds like she is not satisfied with this relationship, a year in she may have realised that you and your kids are not what she wants. you both need to tell each other what is making you unhappy. ask her if there is anything you are doing that makes her unhappy and tell her that you are not happy with her behaviour towards yourself and your kids
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reader, anonymous, writes (2 February 2011): Have you asked her why the departure from the way she was before?
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reader, anonymous, writes (2 February 2011): I think if you would open the lines of communication your problem would be solved post haste.
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reader, anonymous, writes (2 February 2011): I woukld think she needs a good talking to. If I may be so bold.
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reader, raiders  +, writes (1 February 2011):
 You should not allow anyone to be rude mean or a ##$% to your kids, you do have to sit down and talk to her and see what the problem is. You should prepare yourself to call it quits because your kids should come first and no one should be a ##$% to them. If she loves you she should love them because they are a part of you, and if she disrepect you and your kids what more are you willing to tolerate to save this relationship.
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reader, CaringGuy +, writes (1 February 2011):
You need to talk to her ASAP.
No one changes this quickly without reason. There's something severely wrong, and she needs to open up about it. So I'd suggest sitting down with her and explaining gently that you have noticed she seems different, as if something is getting to her. Explain you care and want to listen, because it's important to you and the family. Something is eating at her, and before we can give any other advice, you need to try to talk to her.
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reader, eyeswideopen +, writes (1 February 2011):
 Have you asked her why she has changed attitudes?
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