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writes:hmm, i had once asked a question about this. about how i was moved by a sister figure of mine, my best friend. well recently she had told me once while texting, that with the amount with which she loves me, probably gay - she asked me if i would accept her if she were gay. Trust me though my heart knew no bounds of joy, i told her she was confused and asked her to stop being silly. she kept telling me that she was in love.but some weeks later, we have been physically apart, and she had been missing me terribly and then she msgs me about how a guy who works with her is real sweet to her, and now she loves him. i feel terrible. lost, and dead. I know i love her, and probably i should be gay- but i love her and i cant imagine of life without her. and the guy she loves is a divorcee too. he married at 21 nd divorced at 24. i dont have a good feeling about him at all. Maybe am jealous, but i used to hate him all along.do help me, my days are becoming hell..i cant breathe and am dying.
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reader, roshin +, writes (5 February 2011):
roshin is verified as being by the original poster of the questionThanks a lot for this answer friend.. whoever you are, but you have mirrored my thoughts in your words.Hmm but the fact remains that she loves him like mad. And I just got to know that his married life was only lasted 3 months. She feels a bit insecure wondering what if he leaves her. She's deep in love with him. And she's happy about that. As much as I would love to have her for mine, I dont want to hurt her.And she will be devastated without me for a friend. And so is my situation. What do I do?
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reader, auntieloulou  +, writes (2 February 2011):
 If you have feelings this strong for her, why not just tell her? You cannot go on your whole life like this, you obviously want more than friendship from her. You seem jealous of this guy, and you have every right to be as you are mad about this girl. Your going to be jealous over every single guy that comes along and your gonna keep putting yourself through this hell until you tell her. if she reacts badly and wants to end the relationship then, as bad as it would be, you would have the release to move on with your life.
good luck!
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