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male
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41-50,
anonymous
writes:hi there,i had a girlfriend in mexico for more than 1,5 years, but now she broke up with me. we both traveled a lot to each other and when we are together its just great, but it seems she couldnt handle the distance all the time after me just leaving her behind all by her own every time!! though i feel like obessed with her and i want her damn +@#$ much back moving to that country and be with her! in fact, i even plan to live there wether she will come back to me or not since my own country in europe is just like shit (and no im not from germany, neither stupid france) ...sorry german and french people) anyway, back to my ex... she just want to stay friends with me and that is really hard to me, though i know she wouldnt wanna lose me as a friend since i do really mean that much too her! it has been a few month since she broke up now and i have been pushing her even further away not giving her the space she needed, but i can still not cope the fact we're not together anymore! i miss her everyday and my work suffers from that! i did now realise though that i have to let it be like it is and move on to get myself back together! ...so basically im gonna work hard to get me back on track and look like a fucking real guy again instead of a piece of crap that no one is attracted to! though i am actually going back to mexico next week after being in even another continent of the world and we agreed to have a drink or something to keep in touch! my question tough is if i still got a possibility to get her back and how on earth i should handle this for the next few months and my holiday for 2 weeks in mexico... have i already lost her by pushing her not to leave me or do i still have a shot! i know there are enough women in this world, but i would rather just stay with this one girl! i did have another girlfriend before but i aint really a player kind of guy..so ok, if u got any tips or suggestions please help me out. if you got a gun bullets are also welcome, but i would rather get my life back and be happy again!thanks!
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