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writes:HELP! My boyfriend complains that I never do anything nice and considerate for him in our relationship. He always does the nicest things for me and for some reason I draw a blank any time I try to think of something I could do for him. I cannot even fathom how other couples come up with ideas. Please tell me how or give me ideas. I am so unhappy that I am upsetting him and I don't want him to have to tell me cause then it takes the meaning out of the gesture. Reply to this Question
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reader, anonymous, writes (3 February 2011): Well if that's the case give him an awesome BJ. it has to be really AWESOME!!
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reader, dirtball  +, writes (1 February 2011):
 "- A back rub after a log day."
Oops, I meant LONG day...
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reader, anonymous, writes (1 February 2011): This is verified as being by the original poster of the questionI should have been more clear. We have been together for almost 3 years. I'm looking to put the spark back into our relationship and do considerate things like when we first started dating. He is always bringing me flowers, or he'll skip work and we'll spend the day in bed together, and sometimes he takes me to lunch. I need some sweet/sexy and considerate things that I can do for him. Also ways to seduce him would be good too :)
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reader, dirtball +, writes (1 February 2011):
What are some of the nicest things he's done for you? Can you do any of them back?
Some simple ideas that most guys will appreciate.
- A back rub after a log day.
- Various unsolicited sexual favors if your relationship is at that point.
- Prepare a meal for the two of you and serve it by candle light.
- Treat him for a date. You'll need to tell him ahead of time you're taking him out and will be insulted if he tries to pay.
- Find a nice picture of the two of you and frame it.
- Get him a small gift that can be delivered to his work. It could be nice like flowers, or naughty like a pair of your panties with a note about how you can't wait to model them for him so he can see how sexy they are.
Really, there are tons of things you can do. It all depends on what stage you are at in the relationship what would be most appropriate.
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reader, lynxy +, writes (1 February 2011):
 I think if you both are in love even a text message in the moring saying you can't wait to see him again is a very nice thing.It could be that you have a different way to express your feelings without all those nice things everytime but it is always good to let your boyfriend know that you love him, you could also organize a romantic dinner , there are many posibilities... but if I were you I'd try to find out what he likes without asking.I hope this helps . Good luck
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