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36-40,
*emonyliz
writes:I met this guy a month ago, we talked a lot and have gone out on a few dates. On the first date, after 4 or 5 hours hanging out and talking, we ran into some of my friends and I introduced him, he seemed fine with it and we continued hanging out and drinking and ended up going to home together. We spent the next day together and also had a great time. 2 days later we spent another long day together into the next morning and in between we talked, texted, and he made it very clear that he wanted us to be "official" I was less sure and said we should slow down but that I was very interested as well. Then, 2 days after that he invited me over to "meet his friends" except that when I got there it was just him and another girl. She clearly had no idea who I was or that he and I had been seeing each other. He was really aloof the entire time she was there and made it seem like we were just friends and I later found out that this other girl is an ex that he dated over two years ago. When she left he apologized for how awkward it was and I left shortly thereafter not sure what to do. Later on I texted him telling him I thought the whole thing was unfair and uncomfortable and its now been a day, and he hasn't responded at all. Was I too hard on him? Was he just using me to make this other girl jealous? I'm so confused :(
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reader, lemonyliz +, writes (1 February 2011):
lemonyliz is verified as being by the original poster of the questionHe finally called me and told me the whole thing was a misunderstanding and that he was sorry etc. But I am still skeptical. I really am not sure how to take the whole situation.
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reader, anonymous, writes (1 February 2011): It sounds like he was using her to make you jealous, actually. I would stay away from the subject so that he doesn't think he got any reaction out of you. Just tell him that next time you're invited to hang out with "friends," you'd prefer he was telling the truth.
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