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female
age
36-40,
anonymous
writes:I was in a relationship to an amazing woman for a year and a half, we recently split up, nothing bad happened, we were so in love and both had stuff going on (she was previously married with young kids and i was her first gay relationship) everything was good and it suddenley came out of the blue, she decided to end it. She blamed me (as i have some issues going on) saying they we had a lack of communication and that i couldnt trust her because i wouldnt talk about these family issues. I am completely heartbroken as i never saw this coming, one minute we are happy in love and the next shes ending it, she doesnt have the same feelings anymore and feels like ive lost my personality are the reasons, as well as shes confused and doesnt know how to deal with being gay with her kids. So this happened and there was no build up, we had one argument over nothing and from that we have split. I feel gutted as i feel like she never gave us a chance and just gave up when things went a bit wrong. Relationships have there ups and downs, so why did she just give up? She told me she still loves me and cares for me, and she still contacts me. I have told her that i need space to move on and i need her to stop worrying about me, but she keeps contacting me saying she hopes im ok and she will always be there for me. This is just making it worse, and i really dont know what she wants from me?? She split with me, so why does she continue to contact me to check im ok and tell me she will always be there for me if i want to talk etc... I suppose I just want to know if anyone has been in a similar situation and what is the best thing to do? I am completely heart broken, but i am trying to be strong despite the issues i have aswell as this split, but i just dont understand why she cant leave me to move on. If anyone could offer some advice i would be very grateful! Thank you for listening.
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