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writes:hey, i need help! my boyfriend and i are still in our hugging phase but i want to kiss him. im scared if he doesnt want to, and i dont want to make the first move! help! :| Reply to this Question
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reader, anonymous, writes (2 February 2011): hey, sounds like a lot of these ladies are kind of old....I'm 15 almost 16 so I know what it's like.My boyfriend is younger than me and I was his first kiss.We worked into it a bit fast. Try just having sometime alone from everyone else, like at each other's house or go out for a picnic. While talking, make sure you make lots of eye to eye contact, but don't scare him. Sounds weird, but it leads to a more passionate, magnetic pull. You would both get lured into a kiss, so neither of you would end up initiating it!Me and my boyfriend happened to do this at a football game =) we are still together and very much in love. take my story to thought. Good luck!
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reader, Blonde68  +, writes (1 February 2011):
Awwww I remember a time going through something similar when I was your age.
Perhaps break the ice a little and use a little humour... pretend you have something in your eye and ask him to look... then quickly plant a cheeky little peck on his lips. He may like that and want to kiss you properly then!
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reader, YouWish +, writes (1 February 2011):
 If he is the same age as you, he's not maturing as fast as you are. He's just awakening to these feelings he has with girls, and he's insecure and nervous about the physicality of it all.
Give him time and lots of love. Let him get used to his new hormones. Give him every opportunity to kiss you. If you feel as if he really wants to but can't get past himself, then during a hugging session, look him in the eyes and tell him that you really want to kiss him.
It's kinda like a little kid learning to swim. They're tentative, nervous, scared, they put a toe into the water, and then they realize how incredibly fun it is. Next thing you know, you can't pull them out of the water because of the incredible intense fun they're having.
It'll be the same with kissing with you. Give him time....he's working up to it. :)
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reader, anonymous, writes (1 February 2011): Ah, I remember this with my second boyfriend at 14... I had to make the move for him to kiss me. Maybe try taking the initiative? =]
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reader, eyeswideopen +, writes (1 February 2011):
 If he is about your age, maybe he still has some nagging doubts about getting cooties.
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reader, anonymous, writes (1 February 2011): He is definitely just nervous and worried about scaring you away. He is a guy- of course he wants to kiss you! Just go for it, he will find it even hotter that you initiated the kiss!
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reader, Blod +, writes (1 February 2011):
 He's probably scared like you. But one of you has to make the first move or it'll never happen! I think you should either ask him to kiss you or go for it yourself. He's your boyfriend, so I'm pretty sure he'd want to kiss you! Good luck.
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