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writes:dear readers, i would like to ask the men out there and possibly the women why men like a girl to swallow their semen?why is it attractive to men to see there girlfriend swalllowing the product of their energy?some women say it tastes awful and some think it doesnt. either way, why do men like you to swallow rather than spit?please enlighten me and anyone else to the answer to this question.
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reader, So_Very_Confused  +, writes (28 December 2012):
 Since I always swallow NOT for him but for ME (it's easier, it's neater and the way I manage blow jobs I never taste it at all whereas I would if I had to spit it out) I never gave it much thought as to what a man would want...
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reader, chigirl  +, writes (28 December 2012):
 I don't think men care either way. As long as you don't throw up because of the taste, or make weird faces because of the taste, then who cares. It would hurt your feelings too if a man goes down on you and then makes faces and says "eww, it tastes horrible!". When a man goes down on a woman he tastes her too, and we don't taste particularly better. It's a part of embracing who your partner is, accepting them for who they are, smells and tastes alike.
As for swallowing or not, I've never met a man who preferred either way. Sometimes I swallow because it looks better and feels more intimate to me, than if I was to spit it out. Or even worse, run to the bathroom and then rinse my mouth. That's not very sexy.
It also feels better when the man can come inside of your mouth, versus coming outside. The feeling is good, so that is one good point. Same as it feels better for him to come inside of your vagina when you have sex, rather than come outside. But I never met a man who had a need for either, it's more dependent on what is practical at the time.
As for young men your age (teenagers and early 20-ties) they don't actually know what they like or want. So they are likely to say they want this or that because it is something they have heard from other men, or something they have seen in porn. But they have too little experience to actually know yet what they like, they just don't want to admit that they don't know what they like. So they say what they think other men would say, and it's just a wild guess. Never go by what a man SAYS to you. Instead, when in bed with him, listen to the sounds he makes, learn what he likes, and then do those things. There is a big difference between what young men THINK they want, and what more experienced men actually want.
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reader, CindyCares  +, writes (28 December 2012):
 I don't know, I never gave much thought about it, but to me it seems just like the natural conclusion of an act you have ,supposedly, willingly and freely agreed, or even asked , to perform. It's just a body fluid, not something dirty or poisonous, and, while of course we don't go around tasting and swallowing everybody's body fluids , the intimacy between partners makes it acceptable and normal. Like saliva, - the idea of getting in contact with somebody's spit is pretty disgusting normally - but French kissing someone whom you are strongly attracted is far from repulsive.
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reader, joeclem111  +, writes (28 December 2012):
The deal is find out what your guy is like. If he is super straight he will disrespect you if you swallow. If he wants a swallower and you do it for him, your bedroom technique means he will never look elsewhere because you are the best he can ever know. I love swallowers.
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reader, joeclem111 +, writes (28 December 2012):
The deal is find out what your guy is like. If he is super straight he will disrespect you if you swallow. If he wants a swallower and you do it for him, your bedroom technique means he will never look elsewhere because you are the best he can ever know. I love swallowers.
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reader, anonymous, writes (20 July 2011): For me it is all about acceptance. When a woman swallows the most sexual and intimate essence of my body, it is so sexually satifying and the greatest form of sexual acceptance. You ilterally become part of her, and she consumes a part of you. It is also a control thing. The guy is being somewhat dominant over her by injecting his semen in her. For the woman, there is also a sense of control or domination by devouring and taking him completely. Then there is the porn aspect...it is indeed a more kinky and intense part of the sexual act. And of course, it always feels more amazing when you dont have to pull out. It's also less messy, but I dont think that's a big factor.
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reader, MugenTj +, writes (17 July 2011):
 Let's see!
-Cumming gives pleasure (a biological fulfillment).
-The proper environment is the vagina.
-The mouth is warm and moist, a good simulation.
-Extra suction when the girls, well, suck as we cum.
-Swallowing, following the simulation point, is like leaving the sperms in the vagina. Hence, about 90% of effect is achieved.
-Usually we don't want to get the girl pregnant. Thus, this add an 11%. That's why man evolved to enjoy oral that way.
Just do the math!
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reader, bedford +, writes (2 February 2011):
Swallowing gives a man special pleasure. As a bisexual man, I always swallow at the conclusion of a blowjob. I look directly into the eyes of my partner as he is cumming in my mouth. I then open my mouth and show him the semen as I swish it around my mouth with my tongue. Then I swallow. Try this and watch how much pleasure it gives your boyfriend. If you do it once, I guarantee you will want to continue doing it.
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reader, footlover8 +, writes (2 February 2011):
 Swallowing means you are more relaxed and your movements will flow creating more pleasure for the man, opposed to worrying when he,s going to shoot and spoiling the experience. As a bisexual man when giving a blowjob and he is nearing climax if you dont like the taste put his penis further into your mouth towards throat and his cum will merely run straight down your throat with little aftertaste.
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reader, Honeypie +, writes (1 February 2011):
 To me it just seems more natural. Spitting seems nasty and "unsexy".
Personally, I think it's also a little bit to do with "territory." When a woman swallows she 'own' that part of him. And some men think because she swallows he "own" her. Odd yes, but very basic.
If you don't like the taste have a breath mint in your mouth while giving head or right after. Voila! Problem solved. However, if you can't make yourself swallow just have a tissue nearby and spit it out into.
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reader, Odds +, writes (1 February 2011):
 It literally feels better. I'm not sure why in a physical sense, but it does.
It's also wonderful in a psychological sense, being so loved, wanted, accepted, and most of all *desired* by a girl that she'll gleefully swallow. Sure, she's going to brush her teeth after whether she swallows or not (and yes, that's a good thing), but it's still a world of difference.
Keep in mind, too, that when a guy goes down on you, he's swallowing, too - just in little licks the whole time, rather than all at once at the end. Seems fair to reciprocate.
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reader, dirtball +, writes (1 February 2011):
 I agree eyes, Jmtmj, that was awesome!
To me, it's about acceptance. When you swallow, you're accepting something that most people find disgusting. It also feels great.
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reader, Problem.helper +, writes (1 February 2011):
 First of all we just do find its hot. I can't explain you why exactly. Maybe because it's just really nice way to finish. Plus it can feel really good. Like when girl is giving me blowjob and swallows it instantly. The reason why it's hot is that it feels really good, because penis is in your mouth while we have an orgasm. And that you suck the cum out of it what feels great. For me it's a perfect way how to finish. Way better me cumming on you stomach/breasts or in the kleenex or in your mouth and then you spitting it out. My girlfriend doesn't like taste of cum very much so she'll deepthroat as much as she can and then swallows it before she can taste it. For me it also intimate and also loving thing that woman can do to make sex special for me, because most women are not willing to do this
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reader, ivanichiaynus +, writes (1 February 2011):
 It's one of the most intimate and loving things a woman can do for her man, and we truly appreciate it. And, as has been said, stopping to spit spoils the mood.
I do my part to make my cum taste as good as possible by drinking loads of pineapple juice and eating fresh fruit regularly......
Ivan.
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reader, BrownWolf  +, writes (1 February 2011):
I think it's because she is willing to go above and beyond the normal oral sex. Plus if she doesn't mind or actually enjoys it...then it becomes a real turn on.
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reader, eyeswideopen +, writes (1 February 2011):
 Jmtmj, you bad boy, you need to give coffee on the keyboard alerts...ha ha
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reader, anonymous, writes (1 February 2011): These have been some great answers so far. I would also like to mention that to some men, spitting can come across as a sign of rejection. It hurts some guys to know that the result of something so intimate disgusts his partner.
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reader, Illithid +, writes (1 February 2011):
 We want to finish in a girl's mouth for the same reason we want to be sucked to begin with: it feels good. Warm, wet, not unlike another place we like to finish. But then, while in afterglow and feeling good, she spits it out and goes to grab mouthwash and mutters about how bad it tastes. Yes, we know it tastes bad and we know you're only sucking to be nice to your boyfriend, but when you show how disgusting it is, we feel bad for putting you through that and guilt kills afterglow. When a girl swallows, she's saying that she doesn't hate it and we don't need to feel guilty.
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reader, So_Very_Confused +, writes (1 February 2011):
why spit? I'm a female and the truth is that when a guy cums it's so far back in my mouth/throat that there is no taste and no feeling of the semen... easier to swallow...
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reader, missm83 +, writes (1 February 2011):
 all men taste dif. i love the way my bf tastes. Im always willing to swallow, i want to show him that everything about him turns me on and trust me there isn't anything better then to watch your man watch you swallow his loud! :)
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reader, Jmtmj  +, writes (1 February 2011):
 No man likes to see his potential babies slowly dying on the floor...
We need to be shielded from witnessing such horror.
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