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*oe culls
writes:hello aunts and uncles.this is just a random question to set the record straight.if you break up with your girlfriend, a)who should employ the NO CONTACT RULE? is it the dumper or the dumped?b) what is the meaning when an ex girlfriend contacts you randomly but when you respond 2 her texts, she ignores to reply back?c)considering the boy left the girl,(though he still wants her), she has ignored the advances but out of the blue she contacts him with smthng tht bonded them together, how should the boy react?, ignore to make her curious and thinking or respond and risk being seen available? Am just curious. thank you
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reader, CaringGuy  +, writes (1 February 2011):
Start with a 'sorry - I made a big mistake'. And she what she says after that. Worry about dinner and such when you know she's acknowledged you made a mistake.
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reader, joe culls +, writes (1 February 2011):
joe culls is verified as being by the original poster of the question thank you guys...i love you all for the support....how is the boy supposed to get her back?, flowers, dinner and chocolate?..and what if the girl is already getting involvd wth another guy, they are all over fb flirting and seems more than what catches the eye?
...compete for ths one nw...LOL!
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reader, dirtball  +, writes (1 February 2011):
 LOL, no problem. I just couldn't even add anything to this one.
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reader, CaringGuy +, writes (1 February 2011):
Sorry DB!
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reader, dirtball +, writes (1 February 2011):
Dammit CaringGuy, you beat me to this one too! I can't say it better. Ditto to all his points.
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reader, CaringGuy +, writes (1 February 2011):
a) - Technically, both. But realistically, it's always best if the dumped ensures there is no contact for their own preservation. Sometimes the 'dumper' can be keeping them around as a spare, or feeling guilty. So it's best for the 'dumped' to get rid of the problem.
b) - It means that the ex girlfriend is keeping the guy around as a spare, or for the attention. Hence why the guy shouldn't be in contact at all.
c) - If the boy left the girl, then the boy needs to make his mind up!
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