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writes:Hi guys, This is a bit of a complicated story, but i was hoping someone could help see things from an objective point of view 'cause it's driving me crazy. Here goes:I have a friend who recently told me he's attracted to me and i said i'm attracted to him, too. Then we started flirting a lot over texts. He told me he wants to be my b/f. We carried on flirting for a few days and then he stopped talking to me? WTF? So then i texted him a few days later with a flirt and he responded, flirting some more. But it seems that after every bout of flirting, he goes awol for a while. I don't understand why, considering he said he wants to havva relationship??? Now it's been two/three days and i haven't heard anything from him. He invited me out the other night but i couldn't go so i apologized and then said i could meet him during the day when he has free time. But he never answered! Yet i know he has free time to meet me coz i see he's always going out during the day and stuff.... Any thoughts on what's going on? LOL I just don't know what's going on and would appreciate some outsider views. Thanks so much for your input.
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reader, Chocotabbie  +, writes (1 February 2011):
i think he is using you to boost his ego, ignore his txts... he'll soon call and make arrangements if he is really interested. good luck x
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reader, anonymous, writes (1 February 2011): Are you the one who initiates the texting sessions. If so stop. See if he texts you. Then suggest meeting up, if again nothing happens - forget the whole thing. It can't be that difficult to meet in person.
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reader, Lilfoxxy  +, writes (1 February 2011):
Direct approach mate - just ask him straight! If he respects you and is persuing something he'll give u an answer... If the response is AWOL then that says it all! Don't waste ur time on him!
Could he possibly be in a relationship already????
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reader, Jmtmj +, writes (1 February 2011):
 We can only really speculate, but maybe he just likes a bit of space once in a while? Maybe he's playing hot and cold intentionally to keep you intrigued? Maybe he's just not into you? Maybe he ran out of credit? Maybe he's busy during the day? Maybe he doesn't reply to texts which don't contain a question? There really is a hundred possible explanations...
Honestly, you could spend hours trying to over analyze his behavior and still come up completely off the mark... The only one who knows whats happening is him, so you can either ask him in a friendly way whats up or you can just go with the flow, or if it bothers you so much- call it quits.
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