A
male
age
30-35,
*aintedx
writes:I am so lonely at times and i would always call her. she love me so much in my middle school days for at least 2 years. I didnt even bother trying to make any move with her. I did a stupid part. I kind of liked her, but didnt really want a relationship. During the high school year she still like me but then she got tired and got over me. Now she have a boyfriend. I barely talk to her anymore and i dont know what to do. Should i just leave her alone and try to get over her? I tried once but didnt work much. please help me. Reply to this Question
Share |
Fancy yourself as an agony aunt? Add your answer to this question! A
female
reader, Blod +, writes (1 February 2011):
 It sounds like you had your chance and lost it. So moving on would be the best thing for you to do. You're still very young and there are loads of other girls who are available. Now she has a boyfriend, she's a no-go area. As the others have said, you could still have a chance in the future sometime. But while she's in a relationship, stay away and move on for your own sake as well as her's. Good luck.
A
female
reader, anonymous, writes (1 February 2011): Well, whatever happened she has a boyfriend now. This may not last - then you would have another chance to get close to her. But because you are feeling lonely you are putting all your hopes into this one girl. That's not good - she is not available. So just try to move on and work at building up your friendships. Try and spend time with other girls and keep busy.
...............................
A
female
reader, dollface1  +, writes (1 February 2011):
 Ok, she has a boyfriend now obviously she has moved on.
try and do the same if it's ment to be your paths will cross again.
I assume she is aware of your feelings? if not make her aware before you move on. ask her to go for coffee and then tell her how you feel , make her aware that you do relise she is in a relationship and that you do respect that.
that way the balls in her court to decide how she feels.
good luck
...............................
|
