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female
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30-35,
anonymous
writes:Well I tried to have a good weekend with my boyfriend, and we did yesterday I took him down to philly for the auto show and then took him out for dinner and paid for everything and made a good effort and then last night he decided to open up - and tell me that nothing in his life makes him happy, including me and that really upset me and I started to cry and he went on to tell me I'm selfish and vain and he knew I would turn the whole thing around to make it about me blahblahblah and I kinda opened his eyes to a few things and he just got very defensive and I started to fall asleep because this was all at like 4am and I took all my medicine to sleep and I woke up at 5 and he was gone. Never said a word to me just up and leftnow he is stressed about money and life in general, and he feels as though im messing everything up, and that im not being helpful or kind and i kinda got sick of it last night and stood up for myself and put my foot down.i haven't heard from him since, and i told him last night if he doesn't want to be with me then dont, and when he left - he left half his clothes here.ps. he thinks he's god gift and very stubborn and stuck up...now what would you do in one of these situations? i love the guy, but damn there is only so much i can deal with.
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reader, crummyscreenname  +, writes (2 February 2011):
Forget him and move on. be better and get beter becasue you deserve better. pack up his clothes and if hes not back for them in a month, max. donate them to charity.
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