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female
age
36-40,
anonymous
writes: hi , Ive been married for 5 years now and having problems until today.my in laws are never happy with whatever i do for them.they are always complaining and create a very unpleasant atmosphere in the house..im very disturbed because my husband does not want to get involved in the issue . each time they come up with a new issue.Before they always said i dont cook for them ,so on and so forth ..these issues made me lose my self confidence .i dont feel comfortable staying with them,its only for the sake of my husband im still sacrificing .i get very depressed at times ,thats the reason i havent conceived a baby.now they are making this also an issue.. all i need is my space and live my life my way.. am i right?
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reader, anonymous, writes (2 February 2011): This is verified as being by the original poster of the questionhi ,
thank u so much for ur advice...
Actually ,im living with them but in todays world both parties have to adjust not just one .They are doing this because i've been listening to whatever they say because they are old and i respect them.But what about my respect? I realise i should keep my distance from them to avoid being hurt again..
Such topics always brings up arguements between my husband and i so i try to keep it to myself ..Hope this problems will end one day..after all im married to my husband not them ...
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