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writes:Well I have been seeing a girl for two weeks and last weekend was massive, had dinner at a nice restaurant, the next night i met her best friend, and then the next night was dinner at her parents place. Things are going really well and she has said she really likes me! So Ive meet her best friends and her family. Pretty fast I know. We have also been texting each other all day like crazy the two weeks... until yesterday and now today.I haven't heard from her since her parents dinner, which is really really unusual... I don't think she is ignoring me considering how well the relationship is going...but I think she may be in trouble or something, and I am worried. I texted her yesterday asking how her day was and no reply, about 6hrs later I text her asking if everything is alright, and no reply... unusualSo my question is, what should I do? Should I just wait until she gets back to me? Or should I ring her at some point to see if she is alright?Hope you can help!
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reader, anonymous, writes (1 February 2011): This is verified as being by the original poster of the questionHer internet is broken right now also and she cannot get onto facebook. No other way of knowing if she is upto much really..
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reader, hammyj  +, writes (1 February 2011):
Omg stop texting her. Chances are you are annoying her with all the texting. Its just too much and you look desperate and clingy. I don't mean to be nasty but in my opinion a guy texting you constantly is really annoying.
Just chill and wait for her to get back to you.
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reader, lemonyliz  +, writes (1 February 2011):
Give it another day and then call. You don't want to seem needy or clingy, but it is rude to not respond when you guys clearly have a precedent set for regular communication. She may be confused about her feelings for you and need a little space, and if you get too forward about contacting her it could scare her.
on the other hand it could be an issue with her phone or something. I would say, look to see if she's been active on things like facebook etc. and then give it a little time. If this goes on for more another several days I would call again and then let her know that you feel hurt by her lack of correspondence and that the ball is in her court.
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