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What do men think when they see this?

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Question - (8 October 2010) 11 Answers - (Newest, 8 July 2012)
A female United States age 41-50, *ndulikeittoo writes:

I've seen a lot of questions about breats but haven't bumped into something like this: what do you men think when you can see the shape of a womans nipple, like if she's cold and gets hard nipples, or maybe she's not wearing a brassier and u can clearly see them giggle when she moves or the outline them... What comes to mind? Do ya like it?!

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A female reader, Beth Ann United States +, writes (8 July 2012):

Beth Ann agony auntWell . to the guys I know , its a huge turn-on ! I know because once I chose not to wear a bra , to see the general reaction and they loved it !

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A female reader, Beth Ann United States +, writes (8 July 2012):

Beth Ann agony auntHa , when I don't wear a bra , you ALWAYS can see my nipples ! ( my boobs are perky , so it doesn't look bad )

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A male reader, slimfish New Zealand +, writes (11 October 2010):

slimfish agony auntdid you know that a womans brests change shape just before she ovulates, and the nipples are more responsive and therefor more likely to become erect?.

its called having you headlights on.

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A reader, anonymous, writes (9 October 2010):

Yes, we love when they get hard for any reason. It is the allure of something sexual, without being sexual. To see a complete stranger in a bar or wherever with hard nipples can be extremely arousing. Of course, the problem for us guys is to get a look without being a pig about it or being ungentlemanly. But sometimes, you want women to see that we noticed. So I might glance at them, look up at her face and smile. If she smiles back, great. If not, I know she's uncomfortable and I move on.

I can remember a few times where I have seen a woman in a public pool with nips that were so hard, even the bumps on the areola were visible. That is a HUGE turnon. Erect nipples are a must in my book. Breast size and firmness are a distant second.

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A male reader, daletom United States +, writes (9 October 2010):

Andulikeittoo said:

"Not in a trashy way, like a girl wearing normal clothes walking around... But the nipples are visible but not on purpose."

I presume you mean the outline of the nipple making a bump through the clothing - not the bare nipple itself!

If it happens with normal clothing, in the course of normal activities, I find it attractive but not indecent. My wife, with a bustline in the 34A/34B range, is often braless. On occasion I may tease her (discretely) about an instance of "pointiness" but I'm pleased that it happens.

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A female reader, chigirl Norway +, writes (9 October 2010):

chigirl agony auntDepends on the breasts as well. I think it looks quite sexy for a woman with petite breasts to have no bra on. But if a woman has a fuller bust... I do not want to see much. The "fault" big breasted women often do is show too much. I mean its already out there because they are big, we can see them from miles away... and thats enough. Like, I dont want to see more unless she's naked in bed. And often they show just too much cleavage. Theres a limit for when too much is too much. But petite chests don't "flaunt" in the same way, so for them I feel it is just fine if they want to spice things up with showing nipples.

But, theres a time and place for everything. Unlike these guys down there I don't feel it is appropriate to show nipples at work. While out clubbing in a sexy dress or top, it is hot. But while at work it's best to keep things hidden away. But oh the fashion these days...

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A male reader, The Realist Canada +, writes (9 October 2010):

The Realist agony auntI would half to say its hot because of the whole mysteriousness of not seeing it all together but having to picture it. But again it depends on the context and type of girl. If its an older woman or one whose breasts may hang lower it is quite disturbing.

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A reader, anonymous, writes (8 October 2010):

'see them giggle'??? Y'what?

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A female reader, Andulikeittoo United States +, writes (8 October 2010):

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Andulikeittoo agony auntNot in a trashy way, like a girl wearing normal clothes walking around... But the nipples are visible but not on purpose.

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A male reader, Jmtmj Australia +, writes (8 October 2010):

Jmtmj agony auntYeh, wot dirtball said...

Seeing this on a drunk trashy girl in a club = bad

Seeing this on a business woman when she takes off her

blazer = hot! :D

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A male reader, dirtball United States +, writes (8 October 2010):

dirtball agony auntHonestly it depends on where and when. It can be a thrill to see something you think you aren't supposed to. It can also look very trashy. It depends on the girl, the time, the place, lots of factors.

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